#66 Surrogacy
Discover the incredible story behind The Miles We Run by Alison Beder Solway. In this inspiring interview, Alison shares her heartfelt journey through high-risk pregnancy, fertility challenges, and surrogacy. She opens up about the emotional toll, the lessons learned, and the unwavering hope that carried her through.
Through raw honesty and insight, Alison reveals what it truly means to face life's challenges with courage and compassion. A must-listen or watch for anyone navigating difficult paths, seeking inspiration, or simply wanting to understand the power of perseverance.
Show Notes
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In this conversation, Lori Clarke and Alison Beder Solway explore the intricate journey of surrogacy, touching on personal experiences, emotional challenges, and the legal landscape surrounding fertility. Alison shares her reflections on writing her memoir, the hope and pain intertwined in the surrogacy process, and the life lessons learned from her childhood experiences. The discussion emphasizes the importance of hope, personal growth, and the shared human experience in navigating life's challenges. In this conversation, Alison Beder Solway and Lori Clarke delve into the complexities of pregnancy, fertility challenges, and the emotional landscape surrounding these experiences. They discuss the importance of recognizing warning signs during pregnancy, the impact of limited information available in the past, and the lessons learned from medical professionals. The conversation also touches on the journey of fertility treatments, the role of support systems, and the emotional toll of insensitive questions from others. Ultimately, they reflect on the grief associated with missed experiences and the blessings of motherhood. In this conversation, Alison Beder Solway shares her profound journey through parenthood, surrogacy, and the emotional challenges that accompany them. She reflects on how her experiences shaped her parenting style, emphasizing the importance of resilience and the privilege of parenthood. The discussion also delves into the significance of seeking help, navigating trust in surrogacy, managing anxiety, and the enduring power of hope. Alison's insights offer a compelling narrative of strength and personal growth, resonating with anyone who has faced life's challenges.Description text goes here
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00:00 Introduction and Personal Connections
09:25 Understanding Surrogacy: Definitions and Types
11:44 Legal Landscape of Surrogacy in Canada and the US
17:06 The Emotional Journey of Surrogacy
21:27 Reflections on Writing and Personal Growth
26:20 The Roller Coaster of Hope and Pain
33:32 Life Lessons from Childhood Experiences
39:23 Navigating Pregnancy Challenges
44:10 The Impact of Information on Pregnancy
46:32 Lessons Learned from Medical Professionals
49:45 The Journey of Fertility Treatments
56:36 The Role of Support Systems in Fertility
01:00:44 Coping with Insensitive Questions
01:05:03 Reflections on Pregnancy and Grief
01:07:22 The Journey of Parenthood
01:13:17 The Strength in Seeking Help
01:17:34 Navigating Trust in Surrogacy
01:22:33 Managing Anxiety and Panic
01:26:32 Hope and Resilience in Life's Marathon
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Surrogacy is a growing option for family planning today.
There are two main types of surrogacy: traditional and gestational.
Legal frameworks for surrogacy have not changed significantly in 25 years.
Emotional support is crucial during the surrogacy journey.
Writing can be a cathartic process for reflecting on past experiences.
Hope plays a vital role in overcoming challenges.
Personal experiences shape our understanding of family and support.
Childhood experiences can profoundly influence adult perspectives.
The journey of surrogacy is filled with both hope and pain.
Community support is essential for those facing fertility challenges. Shortness of breath can be a significant concern during pregnancy.
Many women may not recognize warning signs as serious issues.
Access to information has drastically changed over the years.
It's important to question medical advice and trust your instincts.
The journey of fertility can be filled with emotional challenges.
Support systems play a crucial role in navigating fertility struggles.
Insensitive questions can be painful for those struggling with infertility.
It's okay to step back from social situations that are too difficult.
Grief can accompany the experience of motherhood in different ways.
Finding peace with one's journey is essential for emotional well-being. Parenthood is a privilege, even amidst challenges.
Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Trust your instincts when navigating surrogacy.
Anxiety evolves with different life stages.
Hope is a deliberate choice we can make.
Building strong relationships is essential for parenting.
Resilience is key in overcoming life's obstacles.
Every experience contributes to personal growth.
It's important to allow children independence.
Life's challenges can be viewed as metaphorical marathons.
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